The other day, we went to the park before lunch (yes, that is considered bad parenting here to take your kids out in the middle of the day, but I've stopped caring what the people here think about us as parents), AND we saw a huge "herd" of iguanas all suntanning on this patch of grass and on the steps. Of course, it was one of the few times we didn't bring our Flip or our regular camera, so we couldn't catch this awesome site on film that day.
| Action shot! |
| Look at how long these guys are! |
Today, we went back - since it was brutally hot and surely iguanas would like that! - and we didn't find the herd, but we found some random iguanas strolling on the sidewalks in the park. We caught one of the smaller ones on the Flip, but I got a picture of one of the bigger ones later on. These things are nasty but so cool. They honestly look like little dragons. Tim got pretty bold and got close to them, but I wasn't about to get near one. They looked mean.
| No, this isn't Katie in the stroller |
So I threw my head back proudly, put on a fake smile, and stroad through Exito while my children cried (Rosa was crying because she didn't get her nap and was tired - she could care less about the stroller). But after awhile, a miracle happened...Katie enjoyed herself and started singing her normal E I E I O and drumming her lips. Another miracle happened soon after, and Rosa fell asleep while we ate dinner. Then we strolled around a giggling 2 year old and a dreaming almost 1 year old through the mall for over an hour and finally TALKED. We realized that we haven't really had a chance to talk in peace and quiet since we got here. We must have done 7 laps around the mall and then up and down many aisles in Exito. As long as Katie would let us, we were going to walk. Such a nice break. One that we desperately need as we grow more and more homesick.
| At the mall - Rosa passed out in the stroller, Katie singing E I E I O in hers |
Tomorrow's big hurdle? The high chair!!! Looks like we will be having ice cream in the food court of the mall :)
P.S. I put a lot of pictures on here for my blog fans Hannah and Angelica! Enjoy, girls!
ReplyDeleteYou learned a great mama lesson today. Do what you know is right by your child and not worry about the stares. This will still happen in the U.S. I got mean stares the other day when I pulled my little Alejandra out of gymnastics class early because she was making awful decisions. She pouted, kicked, screamed her way out of the gym but I held my ground. My husband said "We do what's right for our child NOT for everyone else. You may never see this people again in your life, but our child is with forever." So keep your head up (Just like you did) and continue making those decisions.....in the long term you and your children will reap the benefits!
ReplyDeleteHI Ginny and Tim,
ReplyDeleteI am thinking of you and sending good wishes your way for good days with your new daughters. I have enjoyed reading your posts Ginny, especially the Coloumbian Diet! Funny, and you still have your sense of humor...this is a good thing.
You might not think so, but it sounds like you guys are handling everything like pros. You knew that this was not going to be easy. My sister used to say that when her kids acted out of control and she didn't know if she could take it another second, "Reward later dollars." Your daughters will recognize this kindness and care later. You will see...the first time they run to you when they are scared, when they are happy about something...etc. You will see!
Hang in there! We are all thinking of you. The kiddos miss you!
Joan
Tim and Ginny, I am so proud of you for doing what you think is right for your girls! Just keep making those decisions "together" and following through "together".
ReplyDeleteLove you and can't wait to hug you and your girls!
Mary Ann